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5 Best Places to Have Intercourse

Let's face it: having sex under the sheets, with the lights turned off, in your bedroom every night is totally boring. You've done it a million times. (Well maybe not a million exactly...) Sure some of those times were pretty amazing, but it's really just not an exciting environment anymore.{relatedarticles}

If your bedroom romps are getting you down, it's time to expand your repertoire and take those moves elsewhere. The world is full of sexy and exhilarating places to get it on, so turn up the heat and try doing it at one of the six best places to have sex. It's important to keep in mind that while diversifying your portfolio of places to have sex can be fun, it's also risky business. Keep in mind that doing the nasty in public is a crime. If this is an avenue you can to puruse, proceed with the utmost caution.

On the beach

What's sexier than the beach? The cool breeze, the sound of the ocean, the crash of the waves; not to mention you're both in your skivvies - and it's publicly acceptable! It's all a major turn-on.


So take advantage of this sexy environment! Find a VERY secluded spot and make the moves on your man. Roll around in the sand and get dirty with him. Sunbathe topless. If someone catches you in the act, just pretend you thought you were at a "nude beach." It was an innocent mistake, right?

Bonus: you can fall asleep under the sun in each other's arms once you're done! Hello, sun kissed tan. Word to the wise -- avoid people at all costs unless you want to end up sitting in the slammer for indecent exposure.{relatedarticles}

In the great outdoors

Take a break from the bedroom, and move your playtime outside. Do it under the sun on a blanket in a deserted park or get cozy on a chair by the pool. Jump your man while lying under the stars by the campfire, or roll on top of him while cuddled up in your tent.

Whether you're camping, having a picnic at the park or just soaking up the sun in your backyard, the opportunities for an outdoor romp are endless. With the ground underneath and nature all around, you'll find sex outside is a whole new, exciting experience. We won't be surprised if you want to go for a second round!

At the office

Sex at the workplace is totally forbidden, and your guy could get in BIG trouble for it. Naturally, that's why office sex is every guy's dream. It's SO off limits. You can role play naughty secretary and powerful boss.


Here's what you do: show up at his work and tell his secretary you're there to "bring him lunch." Wear your sexiest "office" clothing - a tight knee skirt, a low-cut blouse, thigh-high stockings and killer pumps. When you get to his office, greet him with a big smile and lock the door behind you.{relatedarticles}

Waste no time! Drop your decoy lunch and wrap your arms around him. While kissing him, push him into the office closet and shut yourselves in. This spontaneous love attack will get him so hot and bothered he won't know what hit him, and you'll love the adrenaline of doing it in an off-limits place. Anyone could walk in at any moment! You're so naughty!{relatedarticles}

In a (nice) public bathroom

Doing it in public is always hot. Knowing other people might hear or see you doing your naughty deeds is exhilarating, exciting and a huge turn-on. So take it one step further; do it in a public bathroom at a crowded place. (Make sure it's a nice, clean one, of course.)

Try the bathroom in a nice hotel lobby while you're waiting to check in, or pull your man into the restaurant men's room after Sunday brunch. Do it on the sink counter in front of the mirror and watch yourselves get down with your bad selves. Dance up on him at the club, and then take him to a stall and finish the job. Whatever you do, just make sure you lock the stall door.


On top of the dryer

It's double the pleasure, double the fun when you take your romp to the laundry room. Not only is it cozy and warm in there, it smells so fresh and clean!

Turn the dryer on a low tumble dry cycle and hop on top. Pull your man close.{relatedarticles}

The vibrating rumble of the dryer will only heighten your pleasure as you get it on with your guy; it's like a 2 for 1 deal!

You'll be so turned on, you might just have to try it on the washer once you're done!

So if you're tired of the same old, same old, in the bedroom, try taking your man to one of these six sexy places. Whether you choose the beach, the movies, the laundry room, the bathroom or the elevator, you'll both get turned on by the excitement of doing it in a new place, and you might even discover a newfound lust for each other. Give it a shot! But remember to exercise the utmost discretion. The last thing you want is to get caught in the act.


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Serve Up Some Healthy Competition in Your Relationship

We've learned early on in life that it's better to win, and in order to win, we need to be competitive. Although this attitude works well in sports and games, it can rear its ugly head in a romantic relationship. Too much competition can cause both partners to constantly try to outdo each other, which can cause added stress, jealousy and conflict.

However, just the right amount of competition can add spark to an otherwise boring relationship. Plus, it can make both partners motivated to improve their job or household situations. Here are some tips to create healthy competition in your relationship.

Healthy competition can make boring household chores much more fun. For example, you can divvy up jobs between you and your partner and make a game out it. He does the laundry and you clean the kitchen, and see who finishes first. You can race to get your jobs done first, and have a cleaner house in the process.

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Healthy competition can also help your relationships in terms of finances. You can play a game to see who can save the most money in one week. If you're shopping for a new appliance, electronic device or even a new car, you can both compete to see who can find the cheapest price.

If you don't have any new purchases planned, you can use your competitive nature to raise money for someone or something else, such as a charity. Agree on a shared cause and see who can earn the most money. You'll feel good knowing that you used your competitive nature to do good for others.


If you have young children who always like to delay bedtime, you and your partner can take turns putting them to bed. Compete with each other to see who can get the kids to sleep quicker. Both of you will end up winning this one because the result will be more time to spend together.

Ready for some healthy competition? We're talking about working out. If you have a treadmill or elliptical at home, put your stamina to the test. If you prefer to do other types of exercise or don't have any gym equipment at your home, you can track how much time you both spend at the gym. Even if you don't win, your body will thank you for your increased effort.

If your guy enjoys playing video games, why not put your skills to the test? Study shows that 80% of women would play against their partner, with winning as the main goal, if given the chance. So join in and have him teach you the ropes.

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Sound boring? The Nintendo Wii and Xbox Kinect have many games that allow you to be part of the action, so you can jump, dance or pretend to fight, meaning you get to compete and sweat a little as well. Another advantage? Competing and playing games with your partner results in better sex because of increased adrenaline and heart rate. So get your game on tonight!

If playing video games or working out is more effort than you're prepared to extende, watch a sports game with your man and root for the rival team. Although it's passive because there's not much you can do to control the outcome, your man will no doubt appreciate the new-found interest you have in sports.


Another fun way to compete with each other is to turn on the TV and play along with your favorite game shows. If trivia is your thing, turn on Jeopardy! and keep score to see who can answer the most questions. If puzzles are more your cup of tea, turn on Wheel of Fortune and see who is quicker at solving the phrases. Who knows, you may be surprised at how much your partner knows, and for some, being smart is incredibly sexy.

Even just sitting on the couch and having a discussion about controversial subjects such as religion, politics, pop culture or other hot topics can help put a spark in your relationship. You don't need to focus on winning or being right, just have a passionate but friendly discussion about what your stance is on a certain subject.

Having a logical discussion requires critical thinking skills, so you can exercise you mind muscles. You'll get to hear some interesting points from your partner's perspective, and who knows, you might be able to get them to change their mind about a particular topic.

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Accomplishments of the other partner can bring out your own competitive spirit. So don't be surprised if your partner did something out of the ordinary (such as bungee jumping, skydiving and rock climbing) and you want to try it to.

Partners often fuel ambition and drive in each other. If your partner has been partaking in all the extreme stunts and accomplishments, stop standing by and join in on the fun. You may find a new hobby or interest.


 

What to Avoid

 

Avoid competing with each other in terms of careers. Although we all want to be the best we can be at our job, trying to outdo each other will only cause tension. Your partner may become resentful if you are always the one receiving promotions and bonuses while he is struggling at his job.

Plus, career competition will cause one of you to have to make sacrifices eventually, which can be deadly for a relationship.

You also want to avoid turning everything into a competition. You should be able to relax and just enjoy yourself without having to turn everything into a game. A little competition is healthy and even necessary, but it can ruin a relationship if it becomes the main focus.

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A successful relationship requires a healthy dose of competition in order to keep it from becoming stale and boring. The trick is to prevent competition from being a constant force in your relationship. It's important to be equals and to be able to make compromises and sacrifices for the benefit of the relationship.

Competition should be fun and without conflict. Try one of these tips for healthy competition and watch your relationship blossom.


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8 Hot Ways to Turn Him On

At the beginning of a relationship, everything is hot. You're exploring each other's bodies, wants and needs for the first time, and it's exciting. He wants you all the time, in every position possible and in every location of the house (maybe even out in public!) Let's just say you're not complaining about it.

Too bad nothing lasts forever - not even those steamy sexcapades.{relatedarticles}

Once the newness wears off, your sex life just isn't the same. Your man is either out with the boys or glued to the television. It often feels like he doesn't have the time of day - or night -- for you or your needs.

But all is not lost. There are ways to turn up the heat when he's turned into a cold fish. The trick is to make him want you more than that beer with his bros. When you're lacking inspiration, look to these eight effective ways to get him going.


 

Wake Him Up with Sexiness

 

Guys are notorious for waking ready and raring to go. Work this to your advantage. Set your alarm a few minutes earlier than your man's, slip out of your nightie and wake him up with a little sexiness.

Crawl under the covers and snuggle up to him so he feels your lack of clothing. Kiss him gently, and whisper sexy ideas in his ear. You'll have him fully awake and alert in no time! He'll love your spontaneity, and you'll help him kick his day off to a great start!{relatedarticles}

 

Sneak in the Shower with Him

 

While he's sudsing up in the morning, quietly sneak in the bathroom and slip off your clothes. Pull the curtain back slightly, and sneak in while he's turned the other direction. Wrap your arms around him from behind and start kissing his neck.

You'll startle, excite and turn him on all at the same time. And -- big bonus -- the shower makes for easy cleanup after you're done!


 

Dance for Him

 

If you've got moves, show them off! Turn undressing into a slow and sexy striptease. One button at a time, start to remove your clothing piece by piece and give him just a little peek of what's to come. Turn on some smooth jazz or R&B to really amp up the mood.

He'll be on edge waiting for that last piece of clothing to disappear but it's doubtful he'll be able to wait that long. He'll be ripe for the picking in just minutes!

Giddy Up!

 

Every man loves a cowgirl, right? Forget the standard missionary position; it's time for you to get on top. Saddle up and ride your guy like a pony. Yell "yee haw" and pretend your lassoing cow-poke if you have to; just do whatever you need to do to get in the moment.{relatedarticles}

In addition to not having to do all the work, your man will love your take-charge attitude, and you'll both find pleasure in the exciting position!


 

Get Bossy

 

Sometimes, guys get tired of being in charge. Making all the moves can get exhausting and tiresome; that's when it's your turn to take on the boss role.

Take charge of the intimate times with your man. Tell him what you want him to do to you, where you want him to do it, and how hard. Be blunt and direct. You'll command respect and look hot doing it. Your man won't be anything but turned on by your new boss-lady persona!

 

Make Him Beg

 

We all know: guys want sex. So why give them what they want so easily?

Play hard to get. Make your man tell you what he wants you to do, and make him beg for it. Then make sure he tells you what you'll get in return. He needs to make you a deal you can't refuse and get down on his knees to do it!{relatedarticles}

Don't just give it all up for a simple "please." It's a win-win for both of you, and your man will be super turned on by your take-charge attitude.


 

 

Talk Dirty

 

Anyone can whisper "I love you" in someone's ear during sex. If you really want to turn your man on, though, you need to push the envelope a little more.

Sexily tell your partner your deepest fantasies: what you want him to do, and where you want it done. Make demands, give him direction and use those naughty words you were taught not to use as a kid. They'll shock him, turn him on and make him want you all at once.

Don't be afraid to be blunt or crude. In the heat of the moment, your man will welcome the sexy surprise.{relatedarticles}

Be a Tease

 

There's nothing a guy wants more than what he can't have. It's like the little kid in the playroom; he has to have the same toy that someone else is already playing with. You just have to learn to translate this to the bedroom.


 

So put on your sexiest dress, curl your hair and cuddle up real close to him on the couch. As soon as he clues into your strong signals, let the teasing begin. Be coy, don't give up kisses too easily and make him work for it! You could have any guy you want, right? He needs to show you why he's the one you should be with tonight!{relatedarticles}

This will drive him crazy. Just a few minutes in, he'll want you so bad he can't stand it. Prepare for major ravaging! If you've hit a standstill in your love life, try some of these tips out to reignite the spark. They won't just keep him in your life; they'll keep you satisfied, too!

 


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